Why Am I Still Yelling at My Kids?

A Guide To Understanding Why You Keep Yelling Even Though You’ve Tried To Stop

Download this FREE GUIDE to learn what happens to derail your plans to stay calm.

You're still raising your voice over small things leaving you with crushing guilt at the end of the day.

The problem isn't that you need more willpower.

It's that you're unaware of

What's exhausting your patience all day

How your brain flips into distress mode

You're creating a false narrative for your child's behavior

Imagine ...

You could spot the patterns to interrupt yelling before it starts.

That’s exactly what this guide shows you how to do.

This is for you if:

  • You yelled when your kid spilled juice this morning even though you know accidents happen (remember that red wine stain on your favorite sweater?)

  • You blame yourself for "losing it" over your kid not putting their shoes on fast enough, making everyone late getting out the door

  • You're juggling a full emotional load (work, kids, aging parents, household management) and running on empty

Inside you'll discover:


Why your patience runs out faster than you think (and what's been draining it all day without you noticing)


How your nervous system takes control when you're overwhelmed (and the early warning signs you can catch before yelling starts)

Why you take your kid's behavior personally (and how to create emotional space so you can respond instead of react)

Ready to stop yelling and start building steadiness?

About the Author

Joni A Lamb, LCSW

Joni is a licensed clinical social worker, parent coach, wife and sandwich generation mom with over 20 years of experience supporting overwhelmed parents.

She specializes in helping parents who see what's coming (aging parents who will need more support while still raising kids who still need so much) and want to build steadiness now, before the demands pile up.

With practical tools and deep compassion, Joni's work helps parents protect their capacity and learn alternatives before burnout hits.

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